I Don't Want To!!

[Batman]

Originally Posted by sarah thorne

oh, and Batman.....have you EVER not been in the mood at the moment to do the same kind of play when dotty was?

sarah

Not really. We've had some occasions where I haven't known what she was after at a particular time, but, I can't say that I wouldn't have been in the mood to deliver. Misreading a signal is quite different than being unwilling to do something.

[Adelina]

It occurred to me, this question actually IS relevant to me... just not in the way I thought it would be. Something sarah_thorne said to me finally clicked into place.

It's not my kink though, but my husband's, that fits here. He likes being tied and blindfolded for mild CBT, and I am really, wholely, entirely disinterested. I have nothing against it, no qualms or ick factor at all. I just have no draw whatsoever to being the top. BUT, since he's my hubby and I love 'im, I do it on the admittedly sparse occasions that he asks, because I know he loves it and it helps him sleep when he's stressed out.