holding position..
Well some would say I'm a bit TOO stoic. I am generally not going to be TOLD to hold position as I'm normally not going to move. In fact I think the bigger Top/Bottom dynamic for people who are playing with me is to get to the point of GETTING to a reaction.
That said I agree the being told to hold position, or count takes away from the spanking itself. However if the spanking is just an extension of the of a lesson trying to be taught then it can have merit.
And let's not forget what a great dynamic it adds to roleplay!
All that said i actually have been asked by someone TO react. After about two minutes of it I asked if I could stop.....LOL
To each their own!
Kaylex
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