GG / Erotic -- Same thing?

[iggy]

I can't comment on them from experience, but I think of GG spankings along the same lines as cc (dotty) does. I think there is a definite distinction between GG and erotic. Well erotic would be a GG too, but a GG doesn't HAVE to be erotic...just nice and fun.

[nightowl]

I agree with the majority....gg and erotic spankings are different. For me a gg spanking is a reward for behaving, or a fun, just because spanking....however, an erotic spanking for me is more of a mood.........the spanking is incorporated into the whole evening's "events", sometimes as the prelude to an erotic encounter, sometimes being part of the whole evening....butt the two are difintely different feelings.

[emily]

erotic an gg spankings are definitely different. erotic tends to lean more to the sexual side that you dont share with just anyone where as the gg spanking is justa fun type spanking such as a spanking party.. that's fun g/g kinda spankings.

[RG_]

As the posts illustrate, I think it depends on the people engaged in the GG spanking. A GG can be erotic or non-erotic. Like so many other things in the spanking world, our diversity is broad and wide.

[dotty]

Originally Posted by RG_

As the posts illustrate, I think it depends on the people engaged in the GG spanking.

Exactly!

[sarah thorne]

See, I consider the spankings we got at FMS simply 'play spankings'.

sarah

[kaylex]

If we are talking strictly private play (and I hope so becasue I don't want nor do I want to see any erotic spanking in public) then I think once you move into erotic spankings with some one it's hard to stop at the GG line and not go further.

That said if playing with others still happens I definately think that a GG spanking DOES NOT give anyone the right to explore.

Boundaries are our friends,
Kaylex

[Veronica Daniels]

For me they are completely different. A GG spanking can be erotic, but it may not be depending on the mood and the tone of what is going on. An erotic spanking is that and only that for me. The start, middle, and end of that type of spanking is different from the get go! As always, I tend to agree with Gary. Our spanking community is very diverse and we all feel and percieve things from our own perspectives...thank goodness for diversity!

Veronica

[garyspk]

Originally Posted by Veronica Daniels

Our spanking community is very diverse and we all feel and percieve things from our own perspectives...thank goodness for diversity!

Veronica

This is SO true. I grew up with a conservative background (so much for that now!) and it took a long time for me to grasp this concept and really embrace it.

There are lots of twists and turns on the spanking fetish. And they all can be cool. If someone posts something that doesn't particularly "fit" with what turns your crank, keep looking...or post something yourself to jump-start it.

We won't bite! And if anyone does, I'll bitch-slap 'em!

[Batman]

I have given GG spankings before without having them be erotic in nature. I don't explore areas other than the bottom unless the person is my girlfriend. I will, however, give someone a very light spanking or generous warm-up if they've done something really nice.