Changing Limits

[MichiganHeadmaster]

Originally Posted by Adelina

Conversely, I developed a new limit that all tops WILL keep their pants on. (Don't ask.)

Agreed. A top should be dressed while giving a spanking - as a sign of authority. As Seinfeld said in one of his monologues, in any split of opinion, pants beats no pants any time.

Even in erotic play, many subs report that a dressed top imparts a sense that the dom in in charge, even if that's not otherwise in question. Doesn't have to be black tie, but should include at least pants.