Active Real Life?

[BlackVelvet007]

I live in New York, so avenues of exploration are always open. However, it's always a game of roulette and it can be very frustrating. Last night I was in the local fetish club from 730pm to 230am and didn't get a single scene. The folks I most want to play with are a few thousand miles away, which is why I'm glad we have forums like this

[garyspk]

RG brings up the ultimate dilemna of life.

Can one truly be happy with a spouse/significant-other who is not into spanking? Or vice versa...can one truly be happy with a partner who is into spanking and really doesn't have much else that's common between the two of you?

My experience tells me that if you've got someone in your life who really makes you happy and you enjoy being with who is also into spanking, you'd better do everything in your power to keep that person in your life. Because you've got a jewel.

[YELLOW]

Unfortunately, I will probably never get a chance to spank a naughty girl. I am in a long term relationship and finally revealed my fantasy to my partner but to my embarassment she is disgusted with the idea. It is not realistic for me to expect she ever will be interested. For this reason this site has been a lifesaver. I can at least watch video clips however I am specifically interested in an old fashioned belt spanking across the bed(not leaning over the bed)with a little yelping and wimpering and that is hard to find. Any suggestions??

[spanked~amber]

Originally Posted by YELLOW

Unfortunately, I will probably never get a chance to spank a naughty girl. I am in a long term relationship and finally revealed my fantasy to my partner but to my embarassment she is disgusted with the idea. It is not realistic for me to expect she ever will be interested. For this reason this site has been a lifesaver. I can at least watch video clips however I am specifically interested in an old fashioned belt spanking across the bed(not leaning over the bed)with a little yelping and wimpering and that is hard to find. Any suggestions??

Hi ya yellow, I'm glad the site has been a rescue for you I've felt the belt numerous times and the latest being not that long ago. I'm not sure exactly when the clip will be posted on amateurspankings but Gary and I can keep you updated. Hope you won't be disapointed. Honestly though, it was very real and it hurt ALOT. It was filmed in the bedroom and not bent over the bed with a few swats and yelps either, lol. But I'm a big baby when I'm trouble so that being said I'll let you make the judgement for yourself. I know there are many belt scenes done by other models on the site as well.

[Farmgirl]

I am active, but privately. Spanking is foreplay for my guy and me, and has been since we met, when I was 18 and he was 25. On rare occasions when I am depressed or stressed out it's also therapy that I ask him for. Psychologically and emotionally, that's a lot deeper and more visceral than foreplay.

Sure, I've been tempted to get myself spanked by other men, but my guy and I agreed early in our relationship that spanking was an intimate part of our sexual personas, him as the top and me as the bottom, and we would not share that outside our relationship, any more than we would have actual sexual intercourse with other persons. I know that others seem to be able to separate the two things, spanking and sex, but we can't. To us, they're too intimately connected.

I've never been to a party but would like to be a 'fly on the wall' at one. I considered going to a Crimson Moon party in Chicago when we lived there, and I chatted with some of its members online and got invited, but I chickened out. Mainly I didn't want to tell my guy, because he would have never agreed, and I might have gotten something other than an erotic spanking.

[Richard Windsor]

Originally Posted by BlackVelvet007

I live in New York, so avenues of exploration are always open. However, it's always a game of roulette and it can be very frustrating. Last night I was in the local fetish club from 730pm to 230am and didn't get a single scene. The folks I most want to play with are a few thousand miles away, which is why I'm glad we have forums like this

And I bet that you had to pay 35 notes for the privelidge of not spanking anyone? ....... Funny enough, that happened to me once.......... ONCE being the appropriate word there!!

As you know already, RG_, I like to be as active as I can in the lifestyle. Either attending parties/events such as you describe, and also having people come around to my place. Most recently I have had a friendship with a girl in Florida, and while I flew down there recently, obviously distance can be quite the problem especially when you are both single. I am very possessive with my relationships but I have to question myself as to whether that is fair for her, and vice versa for me.

As for other activities. I have appeared in a couple of punishedbrats DVD's and feature on some of their online content. More than likely I will continue to do work with them in the near future. There is an online clothing store that I have had for several years that sells spanking clothing, and coming up in the near future I will be starting my own website where I will be selling my own homemade products (details to come).

As for the last question, I like to be as active as I can in the lifestyle. Life is way too short not to enjoy it. My wish would be that my play partner was closer, but as that is not likely to happen anytime in the near future then I have to see what happens. One thing is for sure though, you won't see me paying $35 to watch everyone else having fun again :-)

Richard Windsor.

[RG_]

Richard is another that I know in real life. So let me give him a plug here, girls, especially if you live in the NY area. He's both a fine gentleman, and, if I may say so, a one-of-a-kind personality. I can guarantee that a girl on Rich's arm (or would that be lap, in this context?) will always be in the spotlight, and will have a big bear of a guy with a kind and gentle heart buried in that big chest.

[iggy]

I'm not. But 2007 is gonna be iggy's year!

[Explorer]

Originally Posted by iggy

I'm not. But 2007 is gonna be iggy's year!

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[MichiganHeadmaster]

Originally Posted by iggy

I'm not. But 2007 is gonna be iggy's year!

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