spanking my girlfriend

[Phreak]

Try asking your girlfriend if you don't know enough about her to instinctively know.

[Redskinluver]

The first thought that came to mind was "is your girlfriend willing to be spanked?" when you said she needed a spanking. If not consensual, its abuse, assault. But maybe we can assume she is okay with the idea.
Has she ever been spanked before by anyone? That could make a real difference. How does she feel about having her panties taken down for a spanking, would she prefer something be left in place. Being summertime there is always the option of spanking her on a bikini.
It does sound like this is the first time. Maybe a simple otk hand spanking, either completely barebutted or over a thong or some other skimpy attire might be the way to go. And have a safeword. Make sure if its her first that its not some unpleasant experience that she will hate.
On the other hand, if she is excited about it, she may have some of her own ideas. Maybe she wants to have an implement used.
Can't go wrong with SSC- thats safe, sane, and consensual. Especially the last.

[exavior]

Originally Posted by Redskinluver

The first thought that came to mind was "is your girlfriend willing to be spanked?" when you said she needed a spanking. If not consensual, its abuse, assault. But maybe we can assume she is okay with the idea.
Has she ever been spanked before by anyone? That could make a real difference. How does she feel about having her panties taken down for a spanking, would she prefer something be left in place. Being summertime there is always the option of spanking her on a bikini.
It does sound like this is the first time. Maybe a simple otk hand spanking, either completely barebutted or over a thong or some other skimpy attire might be the way to go. And have a safeword. Make sure if its her first that its not some unpleasant experience that she will hate.
On the other hand, if she is excited about it, she may have some of her own ideas. Maybe she wants to have an implement used.
Can't go wrong with SSC- thats safe, sane, and consensual. Especially the last.

yes its consensual and she is excited about it. we've talked about it but thanks for the advice. also she just told me that it was up to me on how