Just what the doctor ordered...sort of ...

[spanked~amber]

A curiosity -aren't you all shocked ? It's been awhile since I asked a question so I figure I'm overdue and entitled, lol. This may have already been addressed but I'm too lazy to sift through all the back posts to find out. So spank me. Anyway....I know there are many aspects to what gets a spanko's heart going... I don't think I'm alone when I say that I love a good girl spanking but I also like those "Just because " one's as well. I think of them as stress relief and more times than not they can be theraputic. I love for my head to escape somewhere else at times whether it be while watching a movie or curling up with a good book or well you know but I can also find an escape with a slow building spanking. My question is: for those of you that can relate, how intense do you prefer a "stress relief spanking" to be ? Mild, moderate, or strong ?

[lil_dixiedarling]

I know for me....the ideal would be the careful bridge between moderate and strong. A mild intensity will do nothing more than have me laughing or falling asleep. So if it were up to me there would be that moderate buildup while I "settled in" and reached that level of acceptance then begin to transition into the strong and keep it there for the amount of time needed to "get it all out" then start easing back into reality so to speak with a moderate wind down.

In some ways it could be looked at as the way they do hypnotherapy..the countdown into that in between state and then the count down back to the waking world.

Just my two cents....

[REDAZZPAIN2ER]

Originally Posted by spanked~amber

a curiosity -aren't you all shocked ? It's been awhile since i asked a question so i figure i'm overdue and entitled, lol. This may have already been addressed but i'm too lazy to sift through all the back posts to find out. So spank me. Anyway....i know there are many aspects to what gets a spanko's heart going... I don't think i'm alone when i say that i love a good girl spanking but i also like those "just because " one's as well. I think of them as stress relief and more times than not they can be theraputic. I love for my head to escape somewhere else at times whether it be while watching a movie or curling up with a good book or well you know but i can also find an escape with a slow building spanking. My question is: For those of you that can relate, how intense do you prefer a "stress relief spanking" to be ? Mild, moderate, or strong ?

i feel it all depends on the stress/problem. When i finally found a real phsycotherapist, that realized, my depression over losing my wife, was not going to go away until i can admit to myself, there was nothing i could have done to save her.remember, this was in 2004. This therapist was probably 5-8 yrs older than me.after reading the past treatment plans, how they were going to work to why they didnt.
I was asked if i was willing to try something that isnt practiced by most therapists.spanking/humility therapy.my life changed drastically 4 the best.like i sed, harshness of ndiscipline up 2 u & therapist. If ur really interested, hit me up.

[PoppaMark]

I think it depends on knowing the person. most stress release spanking i give start slow and low, gaining in intensity and speed as I gauge her reactions. But every one is different.