The Issue of Holding Position

[Batman]

I actually prefer the wiggling and squirming. It lets me know I'm having an effect. Besides that, it's just so cute to watch. When I want to make sure my next swat is really felt, I'll just tell a spankee to get her legs back down or I'll pin them with my leg.

Wiggling and squirming is allowed and even appreciated as long as I do not have to stop the spanking. If it is beginning to get out of hand then a couple quick swats to the back of thighs, especially when using a brush, will usually get her attention. Squirming can actually be a good indicator of how the spanking is progressing, when she begins to slow down I know its about time to stop.

I used to meet with a woman from Detroit. Her and I had very strict rules in place for her. She was always to maintain her position no matter what and if she were to miscount we would start all over. Well on our first meeting as she was being paddled over a desk with the Jok paddle she miscounted. As I told her previously, miscounting would earn her 10 swats with the strap applied in the diaper position then she had to go back to the desk and begin her paddling at one. What I said is exactly what I did and by doing so I ended 10 years of frustration that she carried not being able to find a follow through spanker. So many others had promised but none had ever followed through. She found out that night that I was exactly who she in her mind had been hoping to find since she was 19. We subsequently had 3 more sessions after that and they all followed the exact same protocal. I was also the first disciplinarian that made her cry, no one else had previously been able to even if they spanked her black and blue. She always told me that anything in my hand just hurt and that what made the experience fullfilling for her was my ability to scold and lecture her and get into her head.

[Batman]

Wow!! It's been a year since this thread was started. I'm glad it was resurrected though. Since my last post, I have something more to share. One of the last spankings I gave my fiancee, involved me telling her numerous times to hold still when she'd start squirming. It turned out to be one of our favorite spankings. It lasted longer than most of ours usually do. I have found a new appreciation for this type of spanking and no longer do I necessarily feel like holding position has to be totally absurd or ridiculous.

That said, I also know that there are certain involuntary reactions to things such as pain and I'd never be unreasonable about an instruction. I only use the rule to gain more control of the situation than I already have.