A lament

[Dingan]

malak: You expressed your "lament" in a very articulate manner. I guess what you are really implying is that rather than a typical punishment spanking, which can get way out of hand, you prefer theraputic spankings. In such a case your feelings, not your guilt, are the main focus of the spanking. And yes , it is sometimes hard to find a partner who can accept that when she is spanking you, or you spanking her.