Who Knows? Your Family? Your Friends?

[RG_]

Let's start a new topic.

Who knows about your kink, or who do you suspect knows about it? How do you feel about that?

[YELLOW]

Only 1 person knows. I finally took the leap of faith and shared it with my other half only to find out she is repulsed by that. How embarassing to share a deep secret to be shot down. At first I thought maybe she'll come around. It's been many years of dropping hints, but no pants have been dropped yet.

[BlackVelvet007]

My family has no clue. None of my vanilla friends know either. For better or worse, I prefer it that way as none of them could handle the info from what I've seen. Oh well

[spanked~amber]

I think a co-worker or two might suspect I have an interest, but that haven't a clue to what degree. I work with a building full of women and it is not uncommon to hear playful smacks followed by protests and giggles there. My reaction when I'm smacked "unaware" is a jump then a turning of the other cheek. I always insist that I'm not sent on my way feeling lopsided all day. tee hee. They are always willing to oblige. Now as for the rest of my small little vanilla world...no one knows, nor do I think they would understand.
Yellow, I am sorry to hear that you feel shot down by sharing your interest with your other half. Not being understood is difficult. I appluad your courage and honesty in sharing.

[Richard Windsor]

Practically all of my vanilla friends are aware of what I do, and more than one girl always wants a swat or two when the drinks start flowing

As open as I am though, I do everything in my power to keep this from my family, even if they do live 3500 miles away.

Rich.

[RG_]

Originally Posted by Richard Windsor

As open as I am though, I do everything in my power to keep this from my family, even if they do live 3500 miles away.

Rich.

Well, Rich, not to worry. I mean, it's not like you have your picture spanking beautiful girls plastered all over the Internet, or like you're doing spanking videos for commerical companies, or anything like that. I'm sure that your secret is safe.

[iggy]

Well I did tell my best friend I was interested in it one night when we were having a girl's get-together. She was fine with it. I mean it isn't like I have a lot to tell her...just an interest at this point. My best friend would pretty much support me in anything though. She's great.

It's hard to say who else might suspect. I have a tendency sometimes to do stuff just to see if I'll get a reaction. (like I emailed my mom and dad a link to a game called Slap Dat! http://www.slapdat.co.uk/ that is about smacking bottoms...my dad liked it...my mom thought it was disgusting!) LOL

[spanked~amber]

Iggy you wouldn't be a bit mischievious now would you ? It sounds like we would get a long great, lol

[Vice]

does anyone remember guess jeans? anyway in high school one of my friends and i used to slap each others guess symbols...and not just a light tap. she was one of the nicest girls i have ever met and was also a cheerleader, very cute. i remember going to school thinking god i hope emily is wearing guess today. i suppose i am just wondering if she may have been a spanko? she would even bend over slightly for a smack. the slaps were mostly playful but one day she just blurted out that a paddle might work better. of course i was just stunned and a little naive at the time. she then went on to tell me how her mom paddled her and her sister. i ended up saying that i might have to borrow that paddle one day. to which she replied, you can't because it broke in half over my sisters ass. i was just amazed with this girl's openess to talk. i never had to pry. btw this is a very true story and to this day i still think about her and wonder if she was the first spanko i ever met?

vice

[spanked~amber]

My "guess" is that your right