How do I get a spanking?

[innocent_nympho]

oh, and i guess i have a continuation question for anyone who's willing to take a stab at it: how do i get him to even spank me to that point where it will even be considered a "warm-up" spanking if he's so completely hung up on the idea that it will bruise? i'm talking about a guy who will give me a few light swats and then tell me, oh, this is going to bruise you so much. ridiculous, i know, but i can't get him to go further to even get the opportunity to convince him that it won't happen.

if anyone wants to take a stab at this, i'd really appreciate it.

[Billy Wizz]

Good Luck in getting him to spank you. You clearly feel for the man concerned.

However the fact you are on here suggests spanking is important to you. You also must ask yourself can live your life without being spanked or controlled to some degree or are you always going to be searching for that in your life. You maybe able to get rid of the need to be spanked in the short term but can you do it for years and years?

It might seem I trying to break you up but I really trying to make you think about what you really want.

I have had relationships that have failed because of having a non spanking partner. Now I have one and I feel complete.