"Not Now Maybe Later"

[tubaman]

I usually make it a point that if I get a second "no" for any reason, I figure she just doesn't want to play with me. I won't ask a third time.

However, there HAVE been instances when the lady in question bratted me after the second "no," and got her spanking anyway.

You definitely do not deserve a reputation as a guy who doesn't take "no" for an answer when you haven't been told "no" yet. I have heard from other guys who have had this same complaint.

On the other hand, I am sympathetic with the ladies who don't want to hurt the Top's feelings. this might be a good thread. Bottoms, how can you let a nice Top down without hurting his or her feelings?

Paul (Tubaman)