How do I get a spanking?

[innocent_nympho]

Hi there,

I'm new to this forum. I'm a 21 year old asian girl from Toronto. I've got this problem where my vanilla boyfriend won't spank me, not hard at least. If I do something naughty, he'll tell me that I deserve a punishment, but he won't spank me hard! He's only ever spanked me hard once before, but I bruised a lot and now he's scared to do it ever again. At most, he'll give me a few love taps.

How do I get him to spank me? I know he wants to, but he's been traumatized after what happened that time. How do I get him to not be afraid anymore? I can't show him because he refuses to even try again.

Alternatively, I'd love to know if there are any doms in the Toronto area that are looking for a willing sub. Doms are not just for spanking, but also for discipline.

Thanks all,

It's great to meet you all!