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self disciplinary spanking
I have always been interested in spanking as a form of discipline, rather than a sexual turn on. Since it is difficult to find a spanking parter to fulfill my needs, I am attempting to discipline myself. I have never given this an attempt before, but I am determined to see if it is possible. I have made a list of rules and punishments and I will follow them for 1 week no matter what.
To ensure I keep to my obligations, I am recording my punishments (including photos) as a journal here:http://selfspanker.sensualwriter.com/ I have found surprisingly little information about self spanking on the internet. I have yet to see another blog dedicated to it. Surely there are other lone spankos out there who have tried this. Does anyone have advice or comment on self spanking? |
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I did this in my early teens. I was no longer being spanked as punishment by my caregiver (my grandmother) but before she had stopped I had noticed I was experiencing a very pleasant tingling sensation in my bottom and genitals after a spanking, so in self-spanking I was trying to duplicate it. The feeling, of course, was erotic, although at the time I could not have understood that. Thus my attempts at self-spanking weren't for punishment, but for erotic reasons.
My bed at the time had an endrail and I would put a pillow on it and bend over. I would twist my vanity mirror so I could see my bottom, then I would take down my jeans and spank myself with a variety of things (the hand doesn't work very well, it 's too awkward) such as an 18-inch ruler or dowel rods. The best thing I found was my great-grandmother's huge old hairbrush, which was more of an heirloom than anything. It was embossed on the back and would leave this awesomely neat pattern in red on my tush! I thought that was just totally neato! Spanking myself for erotic reasons was never totally satisfactory,I suppose because it was without the interaction of a partner. However it did simulate some of the feeling I was anticipating. I suppose that if one does it to punish oneself, it could be done considerably harder than I did it and the lack of a partner might have been less important. However a normal spanking between two people involves a dominance and submission interplay, a surrendering to authority (M/f to me), and in self-spanking this is absent.
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Discipline in the woodshed Sex education in the hayloft Last edited by Farmgirl; 04-03-2012 at 03:54 PM. |
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