Important Message

[emily]

When my ex-mother-in-law tried to ruin me by outting me to my ex I told him straight out how I felt and what this lifestyle was for me. And then I told him to take a look at our 2 boys and tell me if they are unhappy or of they were not taken care of properly. They're both happy and really great kids. Nothing bout this lifestyle puts them our myself in danger. It makes me hapy and makes me feel like a much better person and I believe it helps me to be a much better parent. Luckily my ex had a great open mind and listened. He didnt totally understand it all or agree with it all but did agree on the factor that it wasnt effecting our children in a negative way. Thats what mattered. He said whatever I did in my own private time was my business. He actually enjoyed looking at my blog and some of the pics lol. So it felt really nice to be able to practically rub it in my bitch ex mother-in-law's face. I still watch my back where she's concerned b/c she's proved to me she looks for any reason to cause drama.

[BlackVelvet007]

I sent a private message to Veronica. Hope it helps some more. Glad NCSF was able to provide some assistance so far. Keep up the good fight.

[Jean-Paul]

Veronica,
I am so sorry that you are having to go through this because of some
closed minded idiot.I will pray that everything works out for you and
that you can quickly resume your passion.You are a wonderful person
and I am sure that you are a great mother.Best of luck to you.

Jean-Paul

Veronica I may be able to find you that Lawyer, this is beyond description an injustice. I have never met you, I wish I did. I live in englewood Colo. You can reach me at ZIBMH@juno.com. To think this lifestyle would in any way make you less of a caring parent is moronic. Some people have zero braincells working. I hope I can help or that you get help. You are so much supported by a great deal of people. Hope to see you at Bandemere some time. But most of all I hope your problem is resolved soon. Take care.

[Veronica Daniels]

A Message from The Spanking Couple

This week we experienced a very difficult and outrageous event. Veronica was out'ed in a very hostile and disturbing fashion that has affected she and her family very deeply. Part of this "out'ing" included an act of blackmail - threatening that if she did not remove all of our sites and related blogs from the internet something much more serious and bad would happen to her and her family because she is apparently "spreading evil" , "endangering" her family, and “should not be in our community”. Those of you who know Veronica know one thing to be true, she values her family and would protect them from harm above all else. So, to that end and in order to prevent this person(s) from acting on this heinous threat, we have taken our site down until this matter can be investigated further.

While this all sounds crazy and surreal, it is all true. It is unconscionable to those of us who understand that living an alternative lifestyle does not make one a sick, bad, or an unfit person. However, sadly we live in a time where people still do feel that way. There are still many mis-perceptions and prejudices against those who live an alternative lifestyle or have the courage to speak out about an issue that may be controversial. Certainly, thank goodness we do still live in a free country where we do have the right to speak freely and express ourselves openly. However, many individuals do not support that ideal and do not support diversity and acceptance of differences. That is profoundly sad.

Those of you who know us and know what we stand for know that any expression contained on our site was between consenting adults and never ever would we condone the endangerment of a child or the spanking of a child. We do not believe in that nor have we ever condoned or supported it! We do not believe in exposing children to adult material or spanking and never have.

Psychological research has shown clearly that there is no evidence that a consenting adult engaging in an alternative life-style is psychologically ill or unable to be a fit and healthy parent and person. There is no connection in psychological research between living an alternative life-style and being an abusive or unfit parent. However, uneducated and uninformed people still believe that to be true. Very sad.

The person or parties doing this remain unknown at this time, and are carefully remaining anonymous. However, since these threats to Veronica are serious and could cause damage to a minor should they chose to act on their threats we have notified local authorities in the computer and hate crime divisions and are consulting with attorneys. Needless to say this is a serious matter and will be investigated and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law by criminal and civil means. I have personally called in some favors from associates in the intelligence community and feel confident the perpetrator of this cowardly act will be identified.

Needless to say Veronica is devastated and overwhelmed. Because of this heinous act we are taking a hiatus from our sites in order to consult with attorneys and experts in this area to decide a course of action.

It is a sad truth that many people still perceive spanking as some sort of fetish that is sick and makes us unfit people and/or parents if we participate in it. One of the reasons we started our site was to show that this is a common and everyday fetish that many individuals and couples enjoy as consenting adults that is not sick or wrong. We will continue to stand strong in our belief in the basic civil rights in this great country we have the privilege to live in.

We thank you for all of your support and understanding during this very difficult time. We simply ask for you patience and understanding. We have always provided superior customer service and will continue to do so. We will make this right to our loyal members and supporters. We know you may need to contact us and may do so at: www.tsccafe.com or through the webmaster@thespankingcouple.com.

Faithfully Yours,
Daniel

For more information on this topic, please visit The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom at: http://www.ncsfreedom.org

[dragonbratling]

I am so sorry this happened to you, Veronica. I did not get to meet you both personally at the Tx All State party but i did get to see several exhibits. my thoughts and prayers are with you during this trial. I am sure things will work out for the best. You will be missed while you are dealing with this. that is a chicken way of doing things. I know many parents in this lifestyle and their children are very well protected against it, and I cannot imagine you doing anything less. please keep us informed if you can

dragonbratling aka txbratling aka carla

[ToddnSuzy]

Very sad to read this, Veronica. Scary too. We wonder if your husband was just bluffing. If he actually wanted custody, why say anything at all... why not just go straight for custody. Seems more like a power-play to us. Of course, you can't possibly risk it until you know exactly where you stand.

Also wonder what possible motivation this anonymous person had.

We're upset just reading about this! Can't begin to imagine what you're going through.

Wish we could do something. You will be in our thoughts though, and we really do hope this all works out.

hugs


http://associety.blogspot.com/

Veronica, Darlin', I am apalled and disgusted by your exes behaviour, yet, sadly, un surprised. My wife and I have no children but we are very close to my two neices and my nephew, and one of my greates fears is that one of my sisters, my brother-in-law or my parents will discover my fetish and refuse to allow me to see these beautiful, wonderful children. I don't know why, but for some reason I think they would. I guess I'm worried that they might decide that I would corrupt the kids morals or something. Veronica, Hon, you BE STRONG! I'm holding out a lot of hope for you that you will find the right lawyer and get this matter resolved. In the meantime, try to remember that there are a lot of people out here on the web that care about you and are pulling for you. And when this is all over, if you manage to get your site back up, I want you and Doctor D to dedicate every update for one year to your ex and to the miserable SOB who couldn't mind their own buisness. And Doctor D, do me a favor and give her a big reassuring hug for me, please. Take care, Veronica, and remember that I believe you will overcome this.
Yours with genuine affection,
DaBillmann

[calif_sweetheart1961]

I am so sorry that you both are going through this difficult time. Some people simply don't understand spanking and the lifestyle. They are clueless. I have never met you both but wish you both good luck as you both sort out this mess. I am glad that you have support behind you!
~Sincerely,
Lisa

[Oldtimersammy]

Dr D & Veronica; Good luck in your nasty predicament. Good people like yourselves, will always win out.

Oldtimer