Is it just me ?

[spanked~amber]

Sometimes I just can't keep my curiosity a secret. It's hard to keep all the things I wonder about bottled up !Since my wondering today is related to the spanking world, of course I felt compelled to run it by my spanko pals ! So here it goes -I think or hope, lol that it is normal for us bottoms to crave that sensual and erotic spanking. Now my curiosity is this: Have any other "bottoms" had a craving or feel the need for a more moderate spanking just for that stress relief feeling it brings after ?

[sarah thorne]

OH YES! Quite often! As a matter of fact, it's one of the things that occasionally comes up in our blog.

However, with me it needs to be more than a "moderate" spanking. It's gotta push the envelope with me in regards to control as well as intensity. RG is pretty good at sensing when I need this - usually I'll get overwhelmed by something that is going on in our life (or my life) and start spinning into this out-of-control anxiety that has me acting all crazy. But one of these kinds spankings can usually reel me back in to a more stable place. I am able to sleep better and concentrate more.

Funny how that works, isn't it?

But anyway, no, it's not "just you".

sarah

[Adelina]

Definitely! Not only normal, but typical, as I understand it. It even has a name: "release spanking." This is, in fact, my primary interest within the kink. For me, spanking has very little to do with discipline; I crave the warm fuzzies that come with such intense stimulation. It's almost like a massage for me.

It is definitely not just you; in fact, you are in very good company.

[Jean-Paul]

No Amber,Its not just you.I feel the same way as all of you above.
Every month or so,I need a stress releasing spanking as well.
Its good for the soul.. Not to mwention the 'warm fuzzies',
I wonder where they come from???

[EricaScott]

Short and sweet -- hell, yes! -- Erica

[emily]

I feel that need quite often. It's comforting to know that I can recieve it when I need it.

[lil_dixiedarling]

Definitely not alone on this one....my only problem is usually asking for this type of spanking, but have had MANY cravings for it.

[nightowl]

Ditto to everyone's answer above..... I sometimes simply need the long moderately hard spanking as Sarah said, to let it all go....feel refocused, relieved and destressed......I don't need it often, but when I do, I hate to think about those around me watching me spin around and around until someone does something about it.....luckily I don't have to spin for long....

definetly not just you

Kay

[Billy Wizz]

I had a spanking friend that I use to spank regularly. She was very much into the more sensual side of spanking and that is the way we played.

However like many of the ladies that have commented in this thread at times she needed to been spanked hard until she cried to get release from the tension and stress of her life.

I only ever spanked that hard once at her request and wouldn't done it unless she asked.

So you are not alone in your desire and need.