A lament

[Dingan]

malak: You expressed your "lament" in a very articulate manner. I guess what you are really implying is that rather than a typical punishment spanking, which can get way out of hand, you prefer theraputic spankings. In such a case your feelings, not your guilt, are the main focus of the spanking. And yes , it is sometimes hard to find a partner who can accept that when she is spanking you, or you spanking her.

[WildAtHeart]

Hopefully this gets seen, I don't think this thread has been looked at in over a year.

I will put it out there though, that while we may be few and far between, there are still some women who don't feel like they have to be too over the top in giving a spanking, who just want to talk, maybe a little light play

Malak, I don't think there is anything wrong with you or anyone for that matter, liking the giving and receiving side of a spanking, I usually run into the opposite problem, guys not wanting to ask for a spanking because they are (for lack of a better phrase) too much of a top or dominant whichever the case may be.

But if there is anyone who is looking for a genuine, not too over the top, spanking enthusiist, someone to talk to, send me a private message.

[garyspk]

A good place to try (if you haven't yet) is one of the bigger spanking parties like the Shadow Lane party that just took place this weekend, or Florida Moonshine, or the Texas TASSP event. You can find some like-minded people and just explain your situation, exactly as you described. Most people at those parties would respect that, I do believe.