IF they don't Cry, you aren't Spanking Hard Enough

[Farmgirl]

I get wound up too tightly on occasion and I get 'therapy' spankings from my guy to unwind me. Normally he spanks me as foreplay before sex, but the therapy spankings are different. They're much harder. I need to cry, and I also need to be separated from the sexual aspect; thus we try to eliminate the personal interaction as much as possible and make them "pure" spankings, almost as if they occurred without a giver. Me lying on the bed instead of over his lap, for instance, eliminates personal contact. The point is, the pain of the spanking causes the tears to start, and after that my emotions take over and it all gushes out of me. I think it is the copious flow of tears that actually clears out all the guilt and fuzz in my brain that binds me up so tightly. All I know is that afterward I feel so clean and fresh and renewed.