How hot do you like it ? Another question from Amber

[spanked~amber]

I figured I was entitled to a few actually, since I haven't asked any in awhile.

For Bottoms/Spankees : Well after a spanking, do you enjoy the after feel, perhaps a little soreness or sting as much as how it feels during the spanking & does light marking make you happy or grumpy ?

For Tops/Spankers : Do you prefer applying a faint pink, red, or deep red shade to a bottom ? Should the bottom be allowed to rub or not after an "earned" spanking ?

[RG_]

Originally Posted by spanked~amber

For Tops/Spankers : Do you prefer applying a faint pink, red, or deep red shade to a bottom ? Should the bottom be allowed to rub or not after an "earned" spanking ?

Toward a medium pink to a medium red, but not bruised, is just right for me. I also have a keen preference for placement, i.e. where the redness (and therefore, the sting) is on the bottom.

[paully62]

my preference is warm and pink.....oh wait, that is my steak at Texas Roadhouse. As far as spanking goes...the redder the bedder.

[BlackVelvet007]

I agree with RG. I don't like leaving bruises or welts. I like a nice deep even shade of red. Especially near the sweet spot.

[lil_dixiedarling]

Originally Posted by spanked~amber

For Bottoms/Spankees : Well after a spanking, do you enjoy the after feel, perhaps a little soreness or sting as much as how it feels during the spanking & does light marking make you happy or grumpy ?

I love an afterfeel .... unfortunately i tend to heal so quickly that the sting and throb that i look for as a sense of accomplishment and reminder of good time isn't something i get alot.....I also am of the boat that doesn't mind a few bruises if they come up, but again i don't really mark for long except for one spot on my right cheek. I am never more happy when I get to wear a nice set of stripes from my tops cane though that is the best feeling for me...

Sherie...my two cents

[sarah thorne]

Originally Posted by spanked~amber

For Bottoms/Spankees : Well after a spanking, do you enjoy the after feel, perhaps a little soreness or sting as much as how it feels during the spanking & does light marking make you happy or grumpy ?

I love having residual soreness! It's a nice reminder. I also don't mind marks, or even bruises altho I don't mark/bruise very easily. When I have actually sustained markings for more than a day, I check them often and, in a weird sick way, am actually a bit proud of them! When RG switched me for the first time, the switch actually ended up wrapping just a bit and leaving welts that lasted (ever so faintly, but still present) for months.

I have a topic that is somewhat related to this, but rather than hijack the thread, may pose it on a different thread.

sarah

[amberlee420]

I love the sting and heated feeling on my bum to last for hours afterwards. And I love the reddest hue possible from a hand spanking. I will actually look at my bum in the mirror several times to admire it, it also keeps turning me on for the rest of the night. I will rub my bum during a spanking only so that he'll hold my wrist aside and spank harder.

[nightowl]

Sherie, I'm the same way....Love the spanking, the sting, etc, but the marks don't seem to last long enough for me anymore... I don't even like to rub afterward because I want the sting to LAST...... I too LOVE my cane stripes (DanDan got a new cane....yummmmy).....I like alittle brusing if it comes up, and I so love sitting down and feeling the uncomfortable feeling of a sore sweet spot....and although not a top, I prefer the redder the "bedder" as paully says.

[EricaScott]

I'll join the ranks of the women who love the afterfeel, the soreness and the marks... although I almost never mark anymore, which bums me out. I want evidence of what I took! -- Erica

[spankingbaker]

I like to see nice light red from hand spanking and nice clear lines from caning. My lady likes a good glow with pain she can feel for a while afterwards