How did you find a Partner?

[emily]

i met my partner at a my very first Texas Allstate Spanking party which is another good reason for people to come because you never know you just might meet the love of your life like i did .. we ended up finding each other on the yahoo list that they start before the party and chatted up until time.. im always able to get a feeling about ppl just from chatting with them which is really wierd i guess it's just the way they talk an how they answer questions you might ask ect.. but i felt a really good vibe just from our chats.. anyways when we finally met the first night of the party it was like we'd known each other for years.. it was awesome.. now it's kinda hard to explain to vanilla friends how i met Him lol..

[MichiganHeadmaster]

Welcome to the forum, wkp. Living in Chicago, you may or may not be aware that there are numerous professional doms who would be able to give you the experience you crave for a very reasonable price and with the right combination of harshness/compassion/safety you need. I knew two very good ones when I lived here but alas they are both retired now.

Of course two issues with that are 1) it would be pay for play, not a relationship, and 2) if you happened to have a preference for a male disciplinarian, the pickings would be slim even in the pro-dom arena.

If that is even remotely an option, search under Illinois on www.maxfisch.com, then join the discussion board to look up reviews of various doms.

In any case, welcome again and good luck finding the right partner!

[wkp]

Originally Posted by MichiganHeadmaster

Welcome to the forum, wkp. Living in Chicago, you may or may not be aware that there are numerous professional doms who would be able to give you the experience you crave for a very reasonable price and with the right combination of harshness/compassion/safety you need. I knew two very good ones when I lived here but alas they are both retired now.

Of course two issues with that are 1) it would be pay for play, not a relationship, and 2) if you happened to have a preference for a male disciplinarian, the pickings would be slim even in the pro-dom arena.

If that is even remotely an option, search under Illinois on www.maxfisch.com, then join the discussion board to look up reviews of various doms.

In any case, welcome again and good luck finding the right partner!

That's what's great about living in a major metropolitan center. No matter what you are into, there are bound to be a few hundred people into the same thing.

I am strictly interested in a female top. I have thought about seeking a pro dom. It may just be what I end up doing. I would probably do that before I would attend a party. It's not quite what I am looking for though. I do want to establish a relationship/friendship. Pehaps a bit idealistic, but I am still hopeful I will find that.

Thanks, your help is much appreciated.