need help

My wife spanks me all the time. She think because she makes more money then me she have the right to control me. I think it is not right. I am the man I should do it. I will give you example.
The last month I took the car out to do the weekly food shopping. Even so I think it should be her job. Well, I got into a little accident with the car. I hit a pole in the parking lot of the store. A small dent was in the front of the car. When she saw the dent, she went crazy. She had her two nieces over from college. She brought them outside and shows them the dent. She told them men are no good. Then went off on how I wrecked her car and she paid a lot of money for the car.

Next thing I know she grab my hand and pull me inside. She told her niece you have to punish the man or they will not listen. In front of them, she pulls my pant and underwear down. My private was showing. I was so embarrass. Then, she force me on her lap put my dick in between her legs and start to slap my ass with her hand in front of them. This was for 20 minute. While she was slapping the ass she told me I am no good. That she take my allowance away from me for a month. My butt hurt for two days. When I told her how much it hurt she said good you deserve it.

Can anyone help me to gain control of my life? She controls all the money. She forces me to hand over my paycheck. Tell me I am going to waste it. She told me that she makes most of the money, so she has the right to control the money. She away spanks me too. Anyone have any idea what I should do.