i was very naughty and now my fate lies in your hands!

[riz]

I vote for #1

[iggy]

How would a spanking solve anything?

I vote he leaves you. (unless it's just some sort of fun role-play scenario)

[batfinch]

I think you need to go through them all one week at a time

[aurora]

There's no trust where there's infidelity, and there shouldn't be any spanking where there's no trust.

It's not a magic cure-all. If the situation is real, develop some real remorse first (as you've not demonstrated any yet), then work on rebuilding the relationship. Then, and only then, should you worry about appropriate "punishments".

[Jean-Paul]

I will have to agree with Aurora here...I couldn't have said it better

[sorebum]

Your poor behind will pay. Then you'll be the sorebum. I empathize. And a little bit I wish I were you. Ouch.

[Billy Wizz]

I basically agree with aurora.

You need to build up the trust in the relationship before you can consider the spanking option to cleanse the guilt.

You certainly deserve a spanking at the right time but the time isn't right yet.

I would also suggest your partner reads up carefully on spanking and spanking methods before he gives you a harsh punishment spanking.