Novice

[wildcard]

Go slow and get to know! Meetings in a public place are the best first choice. Just remember that it is OK to be fulfilled - that is a lesson which everybody on this forum had to learn!
Remember too that consensual and equality go hand in hand - and keep the attitude that you will never be coerced.

[Fafnir]

well im glad that i made the descsion to join this forum the same time someone eles thats not that experinced with the scene did as well. At any rate im a early 20's male thats been intrested in spanking for a while but up until a few days ago hadent discoverd this outlet yet, when i did i was pleasently surprised to find that you were all more understanding and thoughtful then what i prevoisly thought. I look forward to hanging about the forums and gleaning whatever knowledge i may be able to.

And a question... has anyone had trouble finding partners that share the same love for this art that we have for it? cause they do seem few and far between lol.

[lil_dixiedarling]

Originally Posted by Fafnir

And a question... has anyone had trouble finding partners that share the same love for this art that we have for it? cause they do seem few and far between lol.

It can definitely be difficult....and old Murphy's law usually applies you can find lots of partners they are just normally no where near you..... but eventually you will luck out and find someone.