KES Show Part IV: Emmy's Folly.

[tubaman]

Please don't worry about your Mom's words. Vanillas simply don't understand, and some of them never will be able to. Nothing wrong with that; just the way it is. Don't let it get you down. Of the people to whom I've been outted, most didn't really care one way or ther other, but a few were really upset by it. Plus, she's your Mom, and you're a girl (not a big ole hairy man) so this is probably her way of expressing her protectiveness of you.

I'd just let it run its course, and don't let it get you down. It's what you are, and you are a delight!

Paul (Tubaman)

[garyspk]

Emmy, I gotta tell you. While I sympathize with your situation, if there's anyone whose opinions are based on much experience, it's Tubaman and Rangerboy. I agree with them 100%. Follow their advice on this. They are dead-on.

[EmmyDoll]

All of you are amazing good friends, and all the advice you could offer me was dead on and real.

I know I'm not sick. ^_^

Because, Paully said it the best, even if I WAS sick... being 'normal' wouldn't make me much fun. And then again... Tubaman is right.... he's a big hairy man, and Gary is an old fart, so that makes you guys 'more sick', right?

I'm just joking. None of us our sick and I know this.

As for 'blowing over.'

My mom is trying to be super nice to me. Its really weird.... almost like it didn't happen. But I am saving up money for a move.

Thank you for all you kinda words guys! I love you all!

[lil_babygirl]

I guess that is lucky for me in a way.. since both my parents are deceased so not to have to explain any of my lifestyle. Although, I do have a godfather (friend of my dad's) that doesnt mind what I do at all.. in fact he likes to hear the stuff that goes on.. hehe... but then I think he's just an old fart.
Hang in there, Emmy. Life is how you make it so why not enjoy yourself.

[kaylex]

So I can't give much advice but I am a cohost and I do have a second from running around the east coast so....

My advice is really know who you are and be confident in that. If you make bad choices and show you're not responsible your parents are going to see this as just one more bad choice. If you make good choices and prove you can handle life... then they won't get this... but after the initial shock wears off they will accept it as something that's part of you. Something that's a part of you and they don't understand but apart of you none the less.

Love ya all,
kaylex

[emily]

my parents found out an they freaked out in the beginning but i think after they seen that im still the same person and still a good responsible mother they chilled out an accepted that maybe it's not sucha bad thing. even if they never come to terms with it an still make an issue of it just learn to let it go in one ear an out the other. dont let it affect you or your existence in this lifestyle because once you've been in it you cant do without it. it's like oxygen you need it to survive.

emily