The Kaylex and Emmy Show.

[EmmyDoll]

Originally Posted by rangerboy

Unless a spanko has a partner who is understanding in the extreme and who puts their feelings aside, I'd say the odds of a spanko/vanilla relationship surviving the long haul is pretty remote.

That's one man's view....would love to hear from others.

Rangerboy

Yes, I would love to hear other peoples opinions, but this was a silly topic anyway. Because most of our studio audience will likely give a very close answer to what you just said.

I know also, form personal experience, how hard it is to date a vanilla, but I managed to keep together with my boyfriend since our sophomore year in highschool (four, going on five years in April!)

It wasn't till this weekend, when I got to attend the TAS party and really find out what I misssing and why there was this void in my life that I could never really explain.

For me, it was almost easy. When he showed up, and I wasn't expecting to see him, that anger caused me to shout it out in an irattional desicion and yell out my all the things that happened with my weekend at him.

I told him that I wasn't going to force him into anything, even when he offered to try new things. Because it wasn't who he was, and me staying with him when he wasn't a spanko wasn't who I was. So either way, someone was lying. And relationships don't float well with lies in the middle of them. ^_^

That was just a small update for those of you who hadn't heard yet. Since everyone from the TAS is concerned about the host, as I learned and I thank you.

But I'll leave this topic open for more discussion, and let Kaylex start another topic. Its her turn.

[lil_babygirl]

Well I must say what a marvelous post. I myself started off in a vanilla relationship then introduced her to the "dark" side. But then she and I are bottoms/subbies. So it didnt work for either of us to take over the other so to speak.. but now she's gone all vanilla again.. and well I'm... you know still in the mists of things. I cant leave.. I'm always in the lifestyle to the best I can be considering. I have a wonderful Mentor/disciplinarian and many close friends. So for what it can be.. It's all good. Would like to experience the whole umm X side but prefer a female to my orientation. *wink*

[emily]

i crave the spanking lifestyle like i need air.. yesssssssss i know that sounds corny as hell.. oops.. can we cuss on this here program??? i gotta have air to survive... i gotta have this lifestyle just the same.. my life outside of my children before now was so dead and miserable.. once i took the chance an explored the lifestyle more an actually took the giant step to participate it's like a whole new breath of life was instilled in me..