Should I just give up this lifestyle?

[BlackVelvet007]

While I feel bad for "southern sweetie's" plight, it's encouraging and heartwarming to know that people with this proclivity DO find each other and live happily ever after. It's also nice that the posts are more inclined toward saving the marriage by helping her husband adapt to what she needs, rather than encouraging divorce. It's a slow process that requires compromise from both spouses, but hope is still there for a better tomorrow.