IF they don't Cry, you aren't Spanking Hard Enough

[Explorer]

Originally Posted by Bratling

It really has nothing to do with how hard a woman is spanked to get tears. I think most doms/dommes have experienced this. For me, it's always the emotional/mental aspect that will make me cry, or even more so, the shame in disappointing my Daddy/dom.

I've had extremely heavy scenes over the years where I didn't cry one tear.

Just sayin'.

Btw, this is my first post. I just joined.

So true!

Crying is more of an emotional response rather than a response to pain. The pain will help to bring on the tears but if the feeling is not right, none will flow.

In my experience, the words that I use have the greatest effect on whether tears will flow or not.