I Don't Want To!!

[sarah thorne]

BV,

I suppose when one does not have the opportunity everyday, basically, to spank their g/f or wife or casual spanko friend who happens to live nearby then most would jump at the chance of spanking someone.

I guess, since I have a live-in relationship with RG, that my perspective is from an everyday lifestyle thing and not from a "scene" spanking. I have indeed heard of Tops/Doms who either live in with their spankee, or have a relationship where geography allows the maintenance of a fairly normal physical togetherness, who have said they aren't always in the "frame of mind" to spank at the moment it may be needed (like in a discipline spanking).

I guess not being in the "frame of mind for doing this" would be things like, having a very stressful time at work, or other real life issues that sometimes can cause the spanking part of our lives to take a back seat.

Although my post is not really focusing on things such as discipline for the subs, it could perhaps be a factor for the Doms/Tops since consistency would be a very important thing to maintain. Several times in the past, for instance, RG has come home from work and been totally and completely exhausted by whatever has been going on there and didn't have the energy to "deal" at the moment with an infraction of mine. There was another time when I had broken a rule while he was on an overseas business trip and was not in then "frame of mind" for doling out a discipline spanking to me upon arriving home for two reason: 1) because he was happy to see me and wanted to spend the day after arrival on pleasant matters and 2) he was again exhausted from an arduous trip and jet lag.

But, he did it even tho he wasn't exactly in the right frame of mind" at the moment.

Clearer now?

sarah

ps the expansion of this particular musing is now posted on www.zedginger.blogspot.com