Where's the respect?

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Originally Posted by aurora

There was no misguided newbie phase where I thought I had to resort to silly string and salt in someone's coffee to see the demonstration of power I wanted.

I may be misunderstanding your wording but I don't think so. I don't think bratting is part of being a newbie, or more specifically, a misguided newbie. A lot of tops I know like bratting, or welcome it - some don't. As I've played more, I realize that I don't have to be a brat to get a spanking I want, but sometimes it's fun to know you're being spanked for a reason.

Kate