The Issue of Holding Position

[sassy_sandy]

I agree with most of what's been said here. To me, spanking is a physical and emotional activity. Being told to stay in position for, say, 12 swats with a particular implement is one thing, but to be expected to be still for the whole experience would ruin it for me.

Luckily, my partners have felt the same. That the best part of a long spanking filled with banter and the exchange of control and the times when a partner pushes you farther than you thought you could go...it's exhilarating, and you express it with your voice, body, mind, etc. There's nothing better when you both collapse at the end of a good spanking...both exhausted and content.

I try very hard, usually with success, to keep my hands out of the way, but I do get vocal and sometimes kick and squirm. During a particularly hard strapping recently, I started (involuntarily) moving out of the way of the strap. My spanking partner said "Get back over those pillows before I pull you back" in that incredible Dom tone. Now, if I kept position all the time, I'd have missed out on hearing that tone, and he'd have missed out on watching me do as I was told.

I think that holding position thing is over-rated.