How To Invite a Lady to Play....

[Winking Goddess]

Dear All,
So, I am fuming. This man from this site contacts me and asks me if I want to spend some time over his knee for a spanking. I don't know him. He does not know me. There is always trust involved for a spankee to bare ones bottom over another's knee. There is a lot of trust involved in posting here. There is trust involved in all of this. I responded to the Spanker. I asked him to tell me a little about himself. He told me nothing - but gave me a cell phone number to call and invited me to coffee. Well, I am not calling someone I know nothing about. If you want to get to know someone - take a moment - and write more then ten sentences - or don't bother. I asked for a photo - maybe a face would help. He would not send. And then told me that basically I was a joke - and would have backed out anyway. Well - I don't back out. But I do expect to be treated with respect as do many of us on this site. If you are going to make contact - then make contact. Don't send one liners and invitations to lunch. Most of us want to know a bit about who we are meeting! We like to see a face! If you can't do what is asked - then nicely decline...do not be insulting....be gracious! Say something like 'I am sorry but I don't feel comfortable - perhaps another time"...Why the put downs? Take it else where.

So if you are going to contact a lady - or a gentlemen for some play - be prepared to talk about yourself...in writing first. Be prepared to send some kind of picture...most of us will want to see you before we meet you and oh bare our asses for you!!! And if things don't work out - be kind - be polite - be a gentlemen.

Thank you for letting me vent. I am furious.

Pamela