I Don't Want To!!

[sarah thorne]

I plan to expand on this in my blog from a sub perspective, but here is the question......

For bottoms/subs:

APART from the agreed upon undesirables in a relationship (like a real punishment), or the dynamic of a relationship that states that one will submit solely for the pleasure of the authoritarian (like M/s), has anyone ever had a resolute “I Don’t Want To” moment with something that, in the right frame of mind, you would actually like and enjoy quite a bit?

Has there ever been a time where you didn’t want to (I mean, *really* didn’t want to) get spanked, or submit to any other type of “play” that you normally enjoy, but did anyway due to the context of your submissiveness?


For Tops/Doms:

Have you ever given a spanking, or played in any other D/s type fashion, when you really weren't in the frame of mind to do it? Was it to maintain consistency? To satisfy your mate?

Just curious.

sarah