Jax reserves the SL hairbrush for punishment. Since, as someone above said, it's all about intent, I quickly know when I'm told to "go get me my hairbrush", I'm in some serious trouble... We've agreed that I don't get that hairbrush unless I am being punished.
I also get "punished" each time before I have a cigerette, but Jax gets to decide what to use for those issues, so although not used for a long punishment session, his large wooden paddle certainly gets my attention..
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