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Originally Posted by BlackVelvet007
...the spankee can stand in the corner with the warning "If you rub your bottom at all while you're there, you'll be right back over my knee."
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This is one of those questions where there is no right or wrong answers, but falls according to preferences and what works and doesn't work.
In my case, I'm not a personal fan of corner time, but do use it on occasion for one reason or another when I think it has some benefit or, in the case of play, some desire by the bottom.
That being said, I highlighted the above quote to just illustrate how one can take totally oppositve views on something. In my case, I would tell the spankee that if they are NOT rubbing, then I must not have done the job well enough and it's time for another round.
I also consider rubbing to be a little sign of more complete submission, if you have someone who has a defiant mind and wants to not rub just so that she doesn't show a reaction (or as little as possible).