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This one is a major league pet peeve.
A lot of spankees and ladies who top like to make jokes about "Oh this TOP needs a spanking" or "yeah, we'll make a switch out of this TOP". I have no idea where this kind of humor comes from. I just know that I for one do NOT appreciate it in the least. We choose to identify as top/bottom/switch for very specific reasons, and one would HOPE that you would respect a person's identity in this scene. You wouldn't dream of smacking the bottom of a lady who identifies as a spanker, so why joke about a male spanker that way?
At best it's belittling and at worse it's just rude.
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