First I want to say a big welcome to the new members !
Now for my preferences...
My favorite position(s) is over the side of the bed but partially over the leg. OTK is a little difficult if the top spanking you forgets to check on ya and your almost on your head cause your feet don't touch the floor. Of course over a lap on a couch or bed has a lot of advantages
*Positions: I would have to say that my least favorite position is bending over and grabbing knees or ankles. Maybe it's because the bottom is stretched more in this position -I don't know, but OMG triple owww. I hate not having some kind of intimate contact when it's for the purposes of a " play spanking." Now of course for discipline(shhh!) I understand that this is supposed to be uncomfortable & unpleasant. If I liked it than I would repeat that offense I'm being spanked for over and over, now wouldn't I ?
*Subspace: Sensual spankings definitely send me to subspace(spankospace) Hey I just invented a new word !
In order for me to get there though it can't start out super intense, I love the buildup time ...I can take a lot more for a longer period of time if there is that long warm up involved.
*Bratting-I hope I'm not considered a huge brat. I'm very spunky at times as much so outside of the spanking realm as in it. That's just part of my personality. I don't think being a teensy bit bratty is a crime but I think it can go overboard if it's not in the right place. I think it depends on the relationship and how well you know one another. Some Tops like it(I can tell, believe me) and some abhor it. Then there or those that I guess can take it in small doses.