Well let me say that a bottom should NEVER permit themselves to be placed in an abusive situation. I've written before that tops have a responsibility to look after their bottoms and ensure that they are not mentally or physically abused. If you are in an abusive situation, the best advice I can offer is GET OUT OF IT NOW!!!!!!! There is nothing about a spanking relationship that in any way suggests that the bottom is bound to allow abuse of any kind. Please...if you are talking about yourself....get out of your bottom space for now and assert your rights as a human being.

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rb