Safeword ? Whats a safeword ? Lol, just kidding. I'm in agreement with Sarah and Aurora. I have never used a safeword. Sorry to sound repetitive, but for true discipline or motivation it would defeat the purpose if I got to call the shots and end my own discomfort. I also agree though that this decision has come with a huge amount of trust. I do believe that for some spankee's the idea of having a safeword is a bit of security. I just know that for me, once in that truly submissive state, safewords seem so foreign to me. Just my two pennies worth...
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