[Batman]

Wow!! It's been a year since this thread was started. I'm glad it was resurrected though. Since my last post, I have something more to share. One of the last spankings I gave my fiancee, involved me telling her numerous times to hold still when she'd start squirming. It turned out to be one of our favorite spankings. It lasted longer than most of ours usually do. I have found a new appreciation for this type of spanking and no longer do I necessarily feel like holding position has to be totally absurd or ridiculous.

That said, I also know that there are certain involuntary reactions to things such as pain and I'd never be unreasonable about an instruction. I only use the rule to gain more control of the situation than I already have.