Originally Posted by Spanker40

Hello I am male around 40 in Tennessee, Into spanking and even sometimes being spanked. I am married but the wife isn't into this sort of thing. And with kids around not real easy to spank the wife. And like I said she doesn't really like it so I am considering finding a discreet playmate. So what is worse to try and spank her knowing she isn't into it or finding a girl who is into it?