No, I wouldn't want a completely shaved guy. And I've heard from a certain someone who's tried it, that if BOTH parties are shaved, you tend to stick together....kinda like you do to leather seats ---- during sex.
That being said, I like my man with body hair - lots of it. There's nothing like burying my face in a mass of chest hair. However, I have to admit that I DO like some trimming "down there" on a man if I am giving oral sex. Less floss to deal with.
But I am nto terribly picky. I can push the bush back with one hand easily enough.
If YOU like your own area with some hair, then explain why you are growing it back. Preferences should definitely be a two way street. But I wouldn't suggest "punishing" him, so to speak, by taking some things away as you say, because he doesn't wanna do as you ask. I wouldn't take too well to someone stopping to do the things they normally did because honoring a request they made had made me uncomfortable. He shouldn't have to shave if he truly doesn't want to ---- but neither should you.
sarah