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It occurred to me, this question actually IS relevant to me... just not in the way I thought it would be. Something sarah_thorne said to me finally clicked into place.
It's not my kink though, but my husband's, that fits here. He likes being tied and blindfolded for mild CBT, and I am really, wholely, entirely disinterested. I have nothing against it, no qualms or ick factor at all. I just have no draw whatsoever to being the top. BUT, since he's my hubby and I love 'im, I do it on the admittedly sparse occasions that he asks, because I know he loves it and it helps him sleep when he's stressed out.
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