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Define "frame of mind for doing this".
I don't know any male top who will say there was a time when he said to himself "Aw, man, I have to do this NOW?? Crud, I am just NOT in the mood to spank her right now...."
Seriously, though, I'm sure it does happen, but every scene I've ever initiated has been because I seriously wanted to spank someone. And on the rare occasions when a spankee has come to ME to initiate a scene, I've considered it a big honor that I was asked.
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