OH YES! Quite often! As a matter of fact, it's one of the things that occasionally comes up in our blog.
However, with me it needs to be more than a "moderate" spanking. It's gotta push the envelope with me in regards to control as well as intensity. RG is pretty good at sensing when I need this - usually I'll get overwhelmed by something that is going on in our life (or my life) and start spinning into this out-of-control anxiety that has me acting all crazy. But one of these kinds spankings can usually reel me back in to a more stable place. I am able to sleep better and concentrate more.
Funny how that works, isn't it?
But anyway, no, it's not "just you".
sarah
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