[lil_dixiedarling]

Welcome newtothis.... I understand where you could be scared and overwhelmed at the same time in the beginning of opening up and exploring this new found passion.

Keep in mind that most of the normal rules of life apply to the spanking world as well.....everyone is different and make sure you keep it safe!!!

As for some of the pictures on the site....some may look very scary especially for someone starting out...and that is completely normal. just keep in mind that the spanking that preceeded the spanking was safe and consensual and that is not the first spanking they received i'm almost 100 percent sure of at this point. I know in the beginning I was a moderate player and had to take it very easy and over time have built up where i have a few photos that would make some cringe....and have even made one or two people cringe that watch me at some parties i've attended.

But bottomline is you have to learn what is best for you just like in life and work from that and see where it takes you.....you have found a great place to reach out for advice and friendship and learn....that is a great first step in finding what will be best for you.