I am sexually unexperienced but find myself now getting turned on by fantasies that involve spanking. I imagine them to be erotic not disciplined based. While in thought, they are a real turn-on, I see some of the pictures of spanked bottoms that look scary. Is that the norm for spanking?

How do I even get started to learn about spanking and finding someone to help me with this? I live in a small midwestern city (I call it the deep midwest!).

I'm not particularly young, but as I said very unexperienced. I find my libido has shot through the roof in the last few months. Somedays I can barely function. As a single woman, this is not always the best of situations.

What do other people do?