[Lisa]

Although for the most part I agree that if it splits there was a problem in the first place. However, for someone to purposefully target a certain situation goes a little beyond that and should be called out. It happens all the time where people are misled by others - and all be it one may be a fool, or problems may exist - it is not for someone else to prey upon that weakness. If it happened to you - and you were as committed in that relationship it would somewhat bother you that you were the victim of such an act. Now whether you threw a hissy fit over it or decided to perserve your dignity & simply chalk it up to their loss is your decision.