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It is my opinion that when " a line is crossed " it is a different world than tops & bottoms and spanking play ect. It is abuse. Just because a man knows that this woman is submissive by nature, does not give him the right to take that for granted. I have been in a situation that turned violent a few years ago. I was engaged and fortunatly I saw the jekyl side of him then and not after a wedding ceremony. Either way it's a heartache but a lesson well learned. Because of an abusive home life while growing up, it only took that one time. My instinct was to get out with out hesitation and that I did. My submissive side did not prevail. From experience I will say this; Don't waste your time and put your safety and happiness at stake thinking they will change. Whether it be a play partner in the spanking realm or in a relationship, not putting up with abuse does not mean your not submissive, it means your wise enough to stand up for your well being.
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