[Kate]

WHAT DOES NOT WORK: I hate "talkers". I know some people really get into it but don't like it. I've never done role play, but that doesn't appeal.

WHAT WORKS: Well.....I like bare bottomed over the knee. I also prefer to be spanked without my clothes on. And I love implements--whips, paddles, straps. I love being cuffed and having a collar put on too. It puts me in the frame of mind of "I am being subjected to this".

I maybe like more of the top/bottom scene and a little less of the BDSM scene, but for me a combination is the best of both worlds. For me, spankiing is like a kind of foreplay and what goes on after a spanking is as important as what goes on during. When I am involved with someone, I will only be playing with that person. For now, I will play once in a while if a man's intentions are the same as mine, if not, celibacy suits me fine. Guess you can call me an all or nothing person!