Well then, I'm Magus, 44, male spanker living in Tucson, Arizona. Lifeling spanking enthusiast, but only really active last 5 years or so, mostly through Shadow Lane. I'm single, hoping some day to find that soulmate female spankee. I write some spanking stories, too. I didn't know about this site till Blackvelvet told me about it. Thanks, 007! I also see the fabulous (senorita) Erica here! I will try to drop into your chats and get to know more folks. Looks like a fun place.